KARMA is a....

Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. ~Paul Boese

An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind ~ Gandhi.

OH Karma....  You are more than just a Jersey Shore dance club, you are the reason revenge takes hold of those people in our lives that do us wrong and just ruin them.   Muahahahahaha!

KARMA???  Really???

I do believe what goes around comes around, but ONLY as a lesson God puts in our lives, not to ruin us.  I see so many posts...Karma is gonna get you... blah blah blah.  If "karma" was real, like some people believe, we would all be beyond any hope or repair.  What bugs me is that people forget there are many different sides to a story, side A, side B, and the truth.  How do YOU know the person that wronged you hasn't already asked for forgiveness??????

If I believed in "karma" for all the people that have hurt me or wronged me in my life, then I would have NEVER learned to forgive and move forward and vice versa for those I've hurt.   Instead I would have watched in corners laughing at their misfortune.  I'm so glad I'm not that person and so glad my children are not those "KARMA Blasters."  They too will learn to NOT BE DOORMATS but still be gracious and extended forgiveness because we are not a perfect people.  We need to learn that everyone has their own story,  their own feelings,  their own experiences,  their own upbringings, their own weaknesses, and so forth.  And YES someone will wrong you, they will hurt you, they will bring you down, but waiting on revenge only eats away at the person you should be and will be! We are all capable of forgiveness, but that doesn't mean you have to forget how someone made you feel.


NOTE: Now, don't get me wrong, some folks do have to pay for their actions and JUSTICE should be served.   I'm speaking on the petty stuff, the rumor mills, the disagreements, the hurt feelings, etc.